M’s love for the performing arts is something I can really relate to, having spent most of my formative years loving nothing more than singing, dancing and acting whenever possible. Both he and G regularly attend our local Stagecoach theatre school and have not only grown in confidence, but have also developed skills that will stand them in good stead in whatever career path they choose to follow. G is not a natural performer, but her continued hard work, dedication and determination to be the best she can, has seen her win the lead role of “Ugly” in this term’s performance of the musical, “Honk”. This isn’t a musical I’m familiar with and I’m looking forward to seeing the chosen extract in a few weeks’ time with my daughter in the starring role. If her enthusiasm is anything to go by, it will be a fantastic experience.
G has also been spending time focusing on her clarinet and has two big events coming up over the next few months. The first takes place at the end of March and that’s her Grade 1 clarinet exam. She has been practising at home as well as at school and I delighted that she is confident enough to take the exam. Secondly, she is once again performing in our local education authority’s music concert, which brings together instrumentalists from across the county to perform at a local music venue. She loved doing it last year and is looking forward to playing in it soon. G has had several pieces of music to learn for these occasions, but she’s determined to perform well at both and is working hard at perfecting the music as best she can.
M, on the other hand, was born to be on the stage and demonstrates a natural flair and understanding for direction in his classes. He loves to take any and every opportunity to perform that comes his way. It provides him with a focus away from his ill-health and he has had to develop a stamina to perform, no matter how his body is behaving. After all, as we all know, “the show must go on“. M is passionate about the stage and would love nothing more than a career on it; but he is also surprisingly realistic that not everyone can succeed and has talked extensively about what other opportunities the theatre could offer him in the future.
Over the last few months, two amazing opportunities have come M’s way and it’s been great to see him keen and able to make the most of both of them. The first was offered by the Ellen Kent Opera Company, who were looking for child extras to be part of two operas they were performing at our local theatre and approached M’s Stagecoach school to find them. M was, unsurprisingly, desperate to be involved and was selected as 1 of 4 children who would perform a special dance during the performance of Aida. He had 5 half-hour training sessions to learn the routine and the small group then had just one run through on stage with the orchestra on the evening of the performance itself. We were nervous as to how M would cope with the extra rehearsals, his nerves and the stamina required, especially given how poorly he was in the run up to Christmas; but we needn’t have worried.
Like the consummate professional he aspires to become, M worked hard, remained focused and gave a fantastic performance on the night. The prospect of dancing on a “real” stage in front of a full house (approx. 2,000 people) didn’t phase him at all and we were all so proud to see him shine. He stayed true to his character of a child slave in Ancient Egypt throughout his time on stage and Mike, my Mum and I all commented that we have never seen him remain so still and so focused for so long in his life. It was our first experience of opera and we all enjoyed it, even G, who has asked to go and see another one in the future.
In contrast to this professional production, M has also been working on a local am-dram production of hit musical, “Oliver!”. He is playing the part of “Nipper”, the cheeky youngest member of Fagin’s Gang, a part that, quite frankly, was made for him. He takes part in every rehearsal with gusto, even though there have been occasions when he has been crying in pain less than 2 hours earlier. I am amazed at how much M’s determination to succeed in this role has over-ridden any feelings of pain and discomfort that have been haunting him earlier in the day. He has picked up the songs and dance routines quickly and now, as the final few weeks of rehearsals are ahead, he’s working on perfecting them as much as possible.
I am so proud of both our young performers and am looking forward to watching them doing something that they so obviously enjoy over the next few weeks.
It’s nice to read a fun and inspiring post. I wish your 2 little performers the best in everything they do. Take care.
Thanks Tammy and the same to you. R
You’re quite welcome and thank you for the kind comment. Hope you’re having a great day with those precious little performers of yours. take care.
What a lovely post! Fantastic to hear that the music or acting can remove all traces of pain. That is really inspiring and lovely that both kids have found something that they enjoy so much.
It’s an amazing thing to see and makes me so proud. Rx
How wonderful when children spread their wings and find things they love doing, simply enjoying life. Lovely to read. Hayley
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