For once this blog post isn’t about either G or M, but rather about me. Yes, I know, a break from the norm, but there is a me outside of being Mummy and this week has been significant in that part of my life and I unashamedly want to share it.
Yesterday signified the end of an era. After 3 and a half years of working as the accountant for a small business, I said my goodbyes, cleared my desk and am off to pastures new. I have loved almost every minute spent there, but the time has come to move on and Monday morning will see me stepping through the doors of a local and small accountancy practice and starting a new adventure as part of my career path.
The decision to make this change has been a difficult process and is partly influenced by the journey we are currently on with M and his health. My experience has led me to contemplate just how lucky we have been with my employers, who have been unfailingly supportive of the numerous doctors appointments, trips to London, days off to be at home with a sick child and the resulting emotional strains as I’ve juggled home, health and work on a daily basis. I know that there are many parents out there who are not as lucky as I have been and who have to fight to show their commitment to a job, whilst struggling to cope with the drama of a chronically ill child.
There has never be any question or doubt about my commitment to the role and, under these circumstances, I’m sure there are many who are wondering why I would leave such an understanding organisation and venture into the unknown. The answer is simple. I have been fantastically lucky to find a new employer who has firsthand experience of having a child at GOSH and understands that there are times when I’m just going to have to drop everything and leave. Add into the equation the new proximity to home and school – I now have a 5-minute commute to the office in the morning, rather than the 25-minutes battle against the traffic or on the train – and a slightly shorter working week, which will give me the time to be at home to support both G and M as they need me right now, the decision really should have been an easy one.
It’s been more of this………….and not so much of this.
However, it was with a heavy heart that I left my offices yesterday. I have made some wonderful friends over the past 3 years and, for the first time ever, am leaving a job because it’s the right thing to do for our family and not because I am no longer happy there. Their unwavering support and love as we set off on the steps that led us to GOSH, a diagnosis and an on-going battle to return M to good health has been invaluable and I will miss the cheerful banter and the numerous cups of tea that get me through each day. So, for any of the “Donut Gang” who are out there and reading this, a big Thank you for the past 3 years and make sure you stay in touch!
I am greatly touched by this blog, in fact I am getting a surge of lump-in-the-throat!
Bit of an understatement to say that you were ‘an accountant for a small business’. You helped us get through the toughest years in our 22 year history and quietly performed miracles every time we switched software. Etc.
There were times when I thought the company was headed for GOSH.
But we all agree: work hard, do your best, but family comes first every time.
All the very best to the family, including the mighty M
I wish I had been there to cry, laugh and share my best wishes with you R. We both know how hard it is to leave a team that look after you so well. I’ll take those memories with me through life. Wishing you all the very best. Love to all.
Ian C x
Thanks Ian. You came to mind as I said my goodbyes. I now really appreciate how tough it was for you too, even though for both of us it was for the very best of reasons. Love to the family. Rxxx
All the very best for everything. It sounds like you’ve got amazing support.
Thank you so much. I’ve been incredibly blessed with the support from work. Rx
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